women is looked by men Glasses

Some say that we can not judge ourselves personally. That we are able to judge about other people like friends, parents, boyfriend, or neighbor. Does this also apply to women? In the sense that women can not give the impression that is proportional to the significance of women. Women often view themselves and each other as a flawless figure, but nobody is perfect. If there are statements that discredit their families, for example, the notion that women are matrealistis, they immediately tried to dodge by providing comparative statement that makes the surrounding re-think, "women are not matrealistis, but realistic." And that often find is in the real world when women have boldly ambiguous, gender with a population greater than men in this world can be answered lightly, "now's the time of emancipation. Men alone can have 4 wives, why women do not? "If there is more to think about careers and put off running the sunna of the Prophet Muhammad, they have reason to feel right which does not want to rely on post-married man so that now Drudge and sweat in pursuit of the material.
Then how men look at a figure said to be one of the weaknesses of it. 3A widely heard there that can drop the adam rightly or wrongly, that the treasure, throne, and women. The author tries to ask the two men from the profession and a different origin for the expression of an opinion regarding the post-emancipation of women and how women who prefer a career rather than thinking of the family of the man's glasses.
Dimas Bagus Farizky, Bandar Lampung, Student UNDIP. "Now women are more visible character and his ability not only at home, cook and keep the child. But yes do not get too far aja want ngelebihin men. Her husband's servant nature. Women who must be eradicated if women prefer it a career rather than thinking about the family. "


Jacob Main, Solo, Lecturer ATMI. "She was awarded the Lord's crucial position as the co creator or assistants in the creation of the world. Then this function should not be forgotten. In that regard he was after all the other attributes such as career and so should not leave the awareness of these functions. Men and women can be equal in terms of the emancipation of the function, but do not forget the basic natures as women. Women do not have a tomboy when it starts to have an awareness of gender. No need to look ahead of him in public. "He cited his wife who works as a bank clerk in which the leaves at 7 am at least go home bada sunset, but do not forget its function as wife and mother of two toddlers who still require outpouring of affection.
However he looked at her, certainly women have their own assessment of each person. Women and men have a different lens, the angle of view that are sometimes contradictory, and understanding that are often not the same.
Align the Emancipation One Meaning
Indonesian women can not be underestimated its existence. Megawati Soekarno Putri Call it a success to prove it by taking office after the fall Gusdur RI 1. Since the first women deserved to be recognized excellence, call it class fighters Cut Nyak Dien. Women today can become anything they want, such as ministers (Sri Mulyani), professor (Sulastri Surono, FE-UI), and businessman and motivator (Wulan Ayodya). Even many multitalented women have two jobs in Indonesia, one of Nova Riyanti Joseph who is a member of the House, a specialist life, novelist, as well as athletes (Java Post edition Monday, 17/01/2011).
Women are like a flower which is a symbol meaning thousands of affection. The longer the flowers will close its charm to wither if not treated properly. Similarly, women writers reflect on the phrase: Do not let the emancipation of women by excessive wilting.
Briefly review the concept of emancipation is inflamed by Kartini's struggle, whether in accordance with the present condition? It seems now disalaharti that put women not on the function, nature, and the role of concrete. In fact she will no doubt equal rank with men. Similarly, the men would not be aligned with female rank. Quoting Napoleon Bonaparte, the advancement of women is a measure of progress which the country can shake a crocodile with his left hand, but can also shake the world with his right hand. This certainly puts women at a special position.
The most common phenomenon is the women forget their nature as a mother, even preferring a figure of workaholic women. By simply changing role of women as mothers become penggaji helper. Even openly reluctant to marry or have children to go with a career in the clutch. Through this simple article, the author wants to give an overview of women in Indonesia are less precise meaning of emancipation and of course hope that readers (women) can align the mindset quickly as possible. This paper does not mean that the mindset of women suggesting the current one.
Citing Kartini written by Pramoedya Ananta Toer in books Call Me Kartini Only, "Together live independently, we will fight hard to promote, raise our nation from disgrace. Our lives are rich and full service ideals. "(30 September 1901). Kartini era women did not have the freedom, the kitchen becomes a place that is considered appropriate for women as the weaker everyday. Unlimited exploitation by the nobles. Customary law and the influence of colonialism aggravate their condition. Kartini continued to struggle, royal blood that flows does not make a blind eye to see injustice. Kartini eventually managed to fight for women to get education at first, until the birth of other similarities with men.
The condition is now with the tempo where Kartini was certainly very different. Today's very modern concrete has provided space for women to do things that previously could only be done by men. Although still frequently aired by the media in various forms of oppression of women. Women have the vision and purpose in life is clear and correct; confidence in the ability; also have dignity. The more beautiful to look at if women can respect yourself by not doing the excess emancipation. The requirement for women to educate themselves so they can exercise the rights and obligations as an emancipation of women proportionately version Kartini's ideals. It was certainly not intended to make women Kartini forget about nature as part of the rib of man, forget the role of a real woman, then became arrogant because he considered himself a weapon of emancipation.
Women Not Commodities! [1]
Quoting Arda Dinata (2010), "Woman was created by God rather than man's skull so it can only be a thinker. Nor of the leg bones, according to which only runs. Nor from the hand bones that could only look up and expect mercy. However, the woman was created from a man's chest cavity or rib which the entire center of life begins and should be protected. "The phrase that says that women are the pillar of the state and the paradise is under the soles of the feet which is actually a woman's mother clearly puts women into the special . One more, women are also synonymous with fairy world for her beauty, gentleness, kesantunannya, and sexy style 3 (Body, Brain, and Behavior).
Set of privileges owned by women often abused or exploited more precise. It was ironic when the author read the news-style knit Radar Jember which began on January 6, 2011 with the topic Reveals' Business-Esek Esek 'Chicken Campus' in Jember. " With vivid and clear in the article, the chicken campus work because of economic pressure and even those that enjoy their work because the material abundance of love for one night undertaken. Even at 13 issue described that strumpet the campus has a 'pimp chicken campus' which was also still a university student in Jember.
The author believes that this phenomenon does not only happen in Jember, but also other cities in Indonesia as it was never raised in the social rubric Economica Magazine issue 44, BOE Faculty of Economics, University of Indonesia, where the authors take shelter. "Among the frenetic bustle of books, parties, and love, there is one other story that comes intersperse the hustle and bustle of campus life unique. They are real and are all around us. Some people do not want to take the headache of stories about them and others want to find satisfaction from them, "so the opening quotation article with the title Gray Area, Chicken, and Campus on page 7 Economica Magazine Issue 44.
Metropolis, Java Pos (01/18/2011), described in one article with the title of "mistaken Journalist, Victim Families Expelled" about Solikuniyah, psychologists companion victims of rape and trafficking. Mentioned that women who are victims of a growing number of which less than 20 years old. Certainly it is difficult to heal the trauma suffered by victims and it was not short, even a handful of victims who plunge themselves not infrequently as a permanent butterfly night because he felt he was already dirty post-sale or humiliated.
There's that plunged themselves under various pretexts and there are terjerumuskan in professions that are considered by society as a profession garbage. Certainly their presence raises the pros and cons as the passage of the lyrics to "Butterfly Night" Point Puspa creation popularized by Ariel Peterpan, the degrading of women musicians at the lowest point with a pornographic video scandal not only with one woman, "There is hate itself. There is a need itself. There are berluntut love him. There is also cruel to torture him. "Women who work and hired prostitutes should certainly is a real exploitation of women which makes cheap commodity is easily transferable.
Not only work as an entertainer for a moment, it is often found also women who volunteered to make himself worthy of considered low for example by shaking sexy, wearing a very skimpy clothing, and apply to the adam flirtatious acted as teenagers in search of her identity, as well as retainer screen.
One says to the writer, "the woman is like a display in the store. Can look luxurious and desirable if it is in a closed window and the price would be expensive. Differences with a display that is outside and can be touched by all the buyers who normally would be appreciated a lot cheaper. "But of course what is stated by the person does not justify the woman who had been bought and sold like commodities.
Women are not commodities. Economic commodity that is often bartered with a few sheets of hundred thousand dollars. Political commodity to be mass towing a magnet, especially when the elections took place in which women become iconic stage entertainer. Social commodities are consumed by the globalization that does not deserve to wear clothing. Nor as a commodity culture which uses the traditional concept, restrained by a man and a life without freedom. Women like a diamond if sharpened properly and can also be a charcoal if allowed to live in disgrace.